Love & Indulgence

Yesterday, my friends and i went to a restaurant to have tea together. One of my friends told us that according to her experience to teach children, if parents always protect their own children during conflict among children from different families, when the protected boys and girls grew up they will not respect their parents for unfairness, injustice.

When her child gets conflict with others, for example, her boy is playing a toy belonging to her friends' younger girl, the girl comes take away the toy and the boy complains, most parents would immediately say to the boy that the toy belongs to the girl, or you are elder, should let her take it.... But the correct way to handle such situation is to punish our own children but protect others'.

Protect children is to indulge them or to love them, parents can make the difference!